Whether you’ve been married for a decade, or you’re about to meet a girl for the first time, date night should be a special occasion. That means making the effort to make it memorable in a good way. If you’re looking for some tips on how to make that girl in your life feel incredible, then you’ve come to the right place. Check out our tips for wooing any woman that means something special to you: Looking Good
Your young lady will want to know that the time you are spending with her tonight is special to you. Let her know how important this date is by making some time to dress up. Check out a few suit shops for the latest cuts and styles in classic and smart wear. You might even choose to go formal! Of course it depends on where you’re taking her for this date. Head to the barber to get a great cut. By looking your best, you’re making the right impression.
If you’ve got first date nerves, then take some extra time to prepare. The good news is the nerves mean this girl is important to you. You want to make a good impression, and you want the date to go well. Of course, if you want a long term relationship, you can’t try to be anybody but yourself. Feel good about who you are.
Stand up straight, smile, and look her in the eye when you’re speaking to her. It shows you are confident in yourself. Eat a light meal or snack and drink some water shortly before you meet her to settle those butterflies.
When she is speaking to you, give her your undivided attention. It is very charming when men remember the little details, even if the girl doesn’t remember telling you in the first place! Make a mental note of the things she’s into. Notice the little things, like her earrings or the color of her jacket. If you ask her a question, listen to the answer. It’s very annoying when someone has to repeat themselves!
Generosity, not Spoiling
Giving expensive gifts can make some people feel really awkward and uncomfortable. Don’t be afraid to buy her nice things. Just don’t overdo it. If you’re meeting up away from her home, a big bunch of flowers is going to have to be carried around on your date. Instead, pick something small like a box of chocolates that can fit in her handbag. More than one gift on a date can seem a little intense so don’t scare her off by acting like Santa.
Sharing the Bill
If you are meeting up for a drink, coffee or a meal, then be prepared to cover the bill. But don’t assume she won’t want to pay her half. And don’t read anything into her financial independence either. It is not necessarily a sign of how well the date went! If you are determined to pick up the bill, then why not ask “can I buy you dinner?” before you sit down to eat.
Date night can be daunting, but you can make it wonderful. Pay attention to the details, and you’re sure to charm her. Have a great night out.